We all know that we are called to witness to others about our faith and the Good News of the Kingdom. Is every one of us supposed to go door to door? Or to foreign countries? Or even just talk to our own neighbors?
I believe we should all do our best to reach those within our circle of influence, of course, but is it enough? I am introverted and anxious by nature and for a long time, I didn't know how to talk to anyone about my faith. I'm still shy at times but God has done so much for me that it gets harder and harder to stay quiet!
I write, I talk to friends and neighbors a little...enough to plant a seed here and there. But lately I have been feeling nudged to do more. "Like what, God?" I asked. And He said to go into ALL the world! But I am only one person and I get motion-sick just travelling across town (really)! So I have been thinking and praying and asking and praying some more. The answers I got were still a little broad, so I started to get frustrated and God said, "Just pick one."
Several areas and "populations" of people had come up that are very dear to my heart. Everyone has their own story, their own hurdles they've had to overcome, their own family member dealing with illness or tragedy. What unique experiences do you have? What is important to you or are you deeply passionate about? What hurts you or makes you angry? There is a ministry in there somewhere. Don't be content like I was for too long. Time is running out and we are ALL responsible for reaching somebody.
The important thing is that we do SOMEthing!
Scripture reference:
Revelation 12:11
"And they overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, and they did not love their lives to the death". (NKJV)
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
Monday, April 25, 2011
Wow, What a Week!
Hi everyone! Hope you had a really great weekend. I did. And you would think with it being "Holy Week" last week, I would have posted more instead of not at all! The thing is, I had SO much going on, internally and externally, that I could not get ahold of a clear message to write! There's so much to share with you that I did not know where to start, and it was so busy that I didn't want to just fire off something in a hurry, just to get it done. I think I mentioned in an earlier post that I believe in doing things unto God and therefore aspire to do my best, especially those things that I am doing for Him or to teach about Him. (Washing dishes or organizing closets, not so much.)
Ok, another thing I want to stress is that while my blog is Christian in nature, I do not want to get into deep debates over specific doctrine or go back and forth with someone to argue a point. I know what I believe and sometimes I will ask what you believe. Friendly discussion and learning from one another is good. I want to know what you think and believe. But my main goal is to have a place for Christian parents to support one another. A place to tell stories about our kids or our faith in every-day living. I'm not a preacher or a scholar, just a mom who loves her kids and Her God with all of her heart!
And now I'm going to brag about them both. My son is involved in a drama team ministry at our church. This past(Resurrection!)Sunday, the group performed a skit to "Revelation Song" by Kari Jobe. They did an awesome job and it was a powerful performance! My mother was there to see her grandson perform and she was very moved by the whole program. She is not a Christian. In fact, we are the "black sheep" and crazy ones because we are.
However, I saw her being touched, being changed inside as she watched this. The last thing she said as we left was, "Hmm, I might have to start coming here more often". Hallelujah!!! God was definitely in the house that whole morning. We serve an awesome God! To see a video of the team's performance, try this link.
Check it out!!!
DMT413 Easter Proformance
www.youtube.com
Christian Life Church Drama Ministry Team Easter Program
Scripture Reference:
1st Corinthians 15:13-14
"But if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ is not risen. And if Christ is not risen, then our preaching is empty and your faith is also empty."
Ok, another thing I want to stress is that while my blog is Christian in nature, I do not want to get into deep debates over specific doctrine or go back and forth with someone to argue a point. I know what I believe and sometimes I will ask what you believe. Friendly discussion and learning from one another is good. I want to know what you think and believe. But my main goal is to have a place for Christian parents to support one another. A place to tell stories about our kids or our faith in every-day living. I'm not a preacher or a scholar, just a mom who loves her kids and Her God with all of her heart!
And now I'm going to brag about them both. My son is involved in a drama team ministry at our church. This past(Resurrection!)Sunday, the group performed a skit to "Revelation Song" by Kari Jobe. They did an awesome job and it was a powerful performance! My mother was there to see her grandson perform and she was very moved by the whole program. She is not a Christian. In fact, we are the "black sheep" and crazy ones because we are.
However, I saw her being touched, being changed inside as she watched this. The last thing she said as we left was, "Hmm, I might have to start coming here more often". Hallelujah!!! God was definitely in the house that whole morning. We serve an awesome God! To see a video of the team's performance, try this link.
Check it out!!!
DMT413 Easter Proformance
www.youtube.com
Christian Life Church Drama Ministry Team Easter Program
Scripture Reference:
1st Corinthians 15:13-14
"But if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ is not risen. And if Christ is not risen, then our preaching is empty and your faith is also empty."
Monday, April 18, 2011
Water Baptism
I have been reading about water baptism from the viewpoint of different denominations. Interesting how the same scriptures can be used to support more than one interpretation. This is part of the confusion that Satan is using to keep believers at odds and create conflict. There are some things that don't "really matter" as far as doctrinal differences. Then there are those fundamentals that absolutely do matter and form the basis of our beliefs. Where does baptism come in at? Is it a necessary component of salvation? Is it just an outward expression of your commitment to Christ?
What do you think? Let me know and leave me some scripture references.
Here are some other helpful passages: Mark 1:8, Matthew 3:16, Mark 10:38-39, Mark 16:16, Luke 3:16, 21; John 3:23 and finally, Acts 19:1-7
What do you think? Let me know and leave me some scripture references.
Here are some other helpful passages: Mark 1:8, Matthew 3:16, Mark 10:38-39, Mark 16:16, Luke 3:16, 21; John 3:23 and finally, Acts 19:1-7
Saturday, April 16, 2011
What Would You Do?
Ok, most of us volunteer, work, or help out in our church or congregation in some way. I have been a member of my church for 13 years and I know that the leadership counts on me to do my job well and within their guidelines. When they trust me with a task, they know it will be done unto God and with their standards in mind. This is also true with other members that they count on, especially those that have been in the church at least as long as I have.
So, what do you do when you are assigned to work on a task with another long-term member and you feel some aspects are not being implemented according to the "rules" or standards of your leadership? If you are both "equal" in seniority or authority, yet you feel that person is bendng the rules? Or in minor issues, even disregarding them? You want to be well-liked and considered a "team player" but don't want to compromise certain standards either, right? If this person is simply unaware of the rules, you can explain them. If they are approachable, you can calmly express your concerns. But what if you try this and you feel the other person is not open to peer instruction? What if you are met with disagreement or even obstinance?
Do you go to your leadership and make them aware of the situation and therby risk alienating the other member and become the "tattle-tale"?
Do you do your part of the task and not tell anyone else about it? Would you then be equally responsible for any fall-out that may occur later?
Parts of the task may not even come to the attention of leadership if they trusted the members to carry it out for them. But if some standard is compromised and you know about it, are you obligated to report it?
(I'm not talking about a violation of doctrine or doing something against the religion itself. Just protocol and/or procedural issues. Maybe even a minor safety concern).
What would you do?
Scripture Reference:
Colossians 3:23-24
"And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."
So, what do you do when you are assigned to work on a task with another long-term member and you feel some aspects are not being implemented according to the "rules" or standards of your leadership? If you are both "equal" in seniority or authority, yet you feel that person is bendng the rules? Or in minor issues, even disregarding them? You want to be well-liked and considered a "team player" but don't want to compromise certain standards either, right? If this person is simply unaware of the rules, you can explain them. If they are approachable, you can calmly express your concerns. But what if you try this and you feel the other person is not open to peer instruction? What if you are met with disagreement or even obstinance?
Do you go to your leadership and make them aware of the situation and therby risk alienating the other member and become the "tattle-tale"?
Do you do your part of the task and not tell anyone else about it? Would you then be equally responsible for any fall-out that may occur later?
Parts of the task may not even come to the attention of leadership if they trusted the members to carry it out for them. But if some standard is compromised and you know about it, are you obligated to report it?
(I'm not talking about a violation of doctrine or doing something against the religion itself. Just protocol and/or procedural issues. Maybe even a minor safety concern).
What would you do?
Scripture Reference:
Colossians 3:23-24
"And whatever you do, do it heartily, as to the Lord and not to men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the reward of the inheritance; for you serve the Lord Christ."
Friday, April 15, 2011
Quote of the Day
"You can't have everything. Where would you put it?"
—Steven Wright, stand-up comic and actor
—Steven Wright, stand-up comic and actor
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Back to the Basics
So, I got a little flack over my posting about raising kids to be responsible with money and teaching them to work! Some of the negative comments came from my own kids, but hey, it still hurt. LOL
So one person wants to know where charity fits into all of that? While I was "complaining" about the cost of toilet paper, wasn't I helping the less fortunate? Well, yes. But there are the truly less-fortunate and then there are those who play the "victim" for far too long far too often.
So, if I am helping a child, any child, I am helping someone innocent, right? That's what I thought. Welcome a child in My Name and all that. My dilemma, though is this: What if an ADULT uses their children to guilt you into giving in over and over? When and where do you draw the line? If I know a child is hungry and do nothing, that is unthinkable. (I'm not talking about all of the children starving in other countries, of course I can't feed them all. Not alone. But a child you know personally.)
What is the biblical answer to this? Help others, serve, give, forgive, turn the other cheek, and keep doing all of these things! That's what I get out of the Word! And that's what I try to live by. Jesus wasn't a whimp though, either! So, I doubt He would advocate being taken advantage of. I just wonder where that line is? Is it just your individual breaking point? Or seven times seven past that point? What do you think?
Scripture Reference:
2 Thessalonians 3:10-12
"For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: If anyone will not work, neither shall he eat. For we hear that there are some who walk among you in a disorderly manner, not working at all, but are busybodies. Now those who are such we command and exhort through our Lord Jesus Christ that they work in quietness and eat their own bread." (NKJV)
So one person wants to know where charity fits into all of that? While I was "complaining" about the cost of toilet paper, wasn't I helping the less fortunate? Well, yes. But there are the truly less-fortunate and then there are those who play the "victim" for far too long far too often.
So, if I am helping a child, any child, I am helping someone innocent, right? That's what I thought. Welcome a child in My Name and all that. My dilemma, though is this: What if an ADULT uses their children to guilt you into giving in over and over? When and where do you draw the line? If I know a child is hungry and do nothing, that is unthinkable. (I'm not talking about all of the children starving in other countries, of course I can't feed them all. Not alone. But a child you know personally.)
What is the biblical answer to this? Help others, serve, give, forgive, turn the other cheek, and keep doing all of these things! That's what I get out of the Word! And that's what I try to live by. Jesus wasn't a whimp though, either! So, I doubt He would advocate being taken advantage of. I just wonder where that line is? Is it just your individual breaking point? Or seven times seven past that point? What do you think?
Scripture Reference:
2 Thessalonians 3:10-12
"For even when we were with you, we commanded you this: If anyone will not work, neither shall he eat. For we hear that there are some who walk among you in a disorderly manner, not working at all, but are busybodies. Now those who are such we command and exhort through our Lord Jesus Christ that they work in quietness and eat their own bread." (NKJV)
Another Good Quote
"Frustrated? It may be because you're trying to make something happen that only God can make happen. Whenever you are doing what God has called you to do, it is important to rely on His strength, His grace, and His power to complete your task."
Aaron Chavez
Aaron Chavez
Monday, April 11, 2011
Quote of the Day
When asked if she would want to go back to how life was before losing an arm in a shark attack, Bethany Hamilton said, "I would not change what happened to me because I have been able to make a bigger impact on more people, than I ever would have with two arms."
Good for the Soul?
Hi! Hope everyone had a great weekend! In our area, it was just Spring Break for the school children. I used to homeschool my son, but he is in a public middle school now. I did not realize how much I had grown used to my "kid-free" time until this past week! Of course, whenever there is some sort of school break, all of my past childcare clients and most parents of Zach's current friends, start reserving time at our house. So, to be fair, my chaotic week was not entirely due to my own child! So, after spending the week coordinating things for kids to do on rainy days (yes, it rained all spring break!) and preparing endless meals and snacks, I decided my son and I needed some quiet time together. Alone. Away from the doorbell and phone.
What better place to hide away than a dark movie theater? Ok, so there were several new movies out this past weekend, but really only two choices
for a Christian mom and pre-teen boy. "Hop" is an animated tale (and tail?) about a young man and a rabbit who wants to be the Easter bunny. "Soul Surfer" is a tear-jerker based on the real-life story of Bethany Hamilton, the young surfer who lost one of her arms in a shark attack. Although I shouldn't have been, I was surprised my son chose the surfer movie.
Well, let me say that it was a very good movie! Zach said it was the best movie he had seen in a long time. Quite an honor from a boy into the action-packed super hero movies of the past few years! Bethany's story has been public for awhile, but we hadn't really read or watched much about it. After seeing the movie, I have researched more about her story and her life. I am quite impressed with this young lady! Her physical courage is great, but nothing compares to her spiritual convictions, faith, and humble spirit. These things are more obvious in her real life than in the movie, but the actors did an amazing job walking a difficult line in the film.
I read alot of negative feedback from critics and bloggers. Words like "cheesy" and "fluff" came up many times. Did they watch the same movie I did? I saw incredible strength, endurance and loving commitment. Not just in Bethany but also the other characters in her life. I was deeply moved by this movie and by Bethany herself. My son says this movie completely changed how he looks at life. He is 13 years old and wants to give away his allowance to children suffering from the recent earthquakes and tsunamis. It's only been a couple of days, but he SAYS this story inspired him to stop complaining about what he can't do and to do his chores less grudgingly. We will see.
For devout Christians, this movie may not have gone far enough in depicting the family's faith. For non-believers, it may have been too "preachy", I guess. For me, it was a good balance. Sure, it could have had even more scenes of prayer or family devotion time, for example. But then, how many "main-stream" kids or "secular" parents would have sat through it? They got the story and the message out to a bigger audience while still giving God, and Bethany's faith in Him, the credit for her amazing "comeback. That's a huge step in the right direction.
Did anybody see this movie? What do you think?
Scripture Reference:
Psalm 34:4
"I sought the Lord, and He heard me, And delivered me from all my fears."
What better place to hide away than a dark movie theater? Ok, so there were several new movies out this past weekend, but really only two choices
for a Christian mom and pre-teen boy. "Hop" is an animated tale (and tail?) about a young man and a rabbit who wants to be the Easter bunny. "Soul Surfer" is a tear-jerker based on the real-life story of Bethany Hamilton, the young surfer who lost one of her arms in a shark attack. Although I shouldn't have been, I was surprised my son chose the surfer movie.
Well, let me say that it was a very good movie! Zach said it was the best movie he had seen in a long time. Quite an honor from a boy into the action-packed super hero movies of the past few years! Bethany's story has been public for awhile, but we hadn't really read or watched much about it. After seeing the movie, I have researched more about her story and her life. I am quite impressed with this young lady! Her physical courage is great, but nothing compares to her spiritual convictions, faith, and humble spirit. These things are more obvious in her real life than in the movie, but the actors did an amazing job walking a difficult line in the film.
I read alot of negative feedback from critics and bloggers. Words like "cheesy" and "fluff" came up many times. Did they watch the same movie I did? I saw incredible strength, endurance and loving commitment. Not just in Bethany but also the other characters in her life. I was deeply moved by this movie and by Bethany herself. My son says this movie completely changed how he looks at life. He is 13 years old and wants to give away his allowance to children suffering from the recent earthquakes and tsunamis. It's only been a couple of days, but he SAYS this story inspired him to stop complaining about what he can't do and to do his chores less grudgingly. We will see.
For devout Christians, this movie may not have gone far enough in depicting the family's faith. For non-believers, it may have been too "preachy", I guess. For me, it was a good balance. Sure, it could have had even more scenes of prayer or family devotion time, for example. But then, how many "main-stream" kids or "secular" parents would have sat through it? They got the story and the message out to a bigger audience while still giving God, and Bethany's faith in Him, the credit for her amazing "comeback. That's a huge step in the right direction.
Did anybody see this movie? What do you think?
Scripture Reference:
Psalm 34:4
"I sought the Lord, and He heard me, And delivered me from all my fears."
Friday, April 8, 2011
Really?
There are a couple of things going off in my spirit today. I am going to pray about both of them and ask your opinion on one at a time, if that's ok?
I have noticed in my own extended family as well as heard from friends and neighbors, that many young people do not have the work-ethic or values of past generations. Oh, you just noticed that, Deb? Well, I guess I've known it intellectually for awhile, but it seems to be more prevalent in my circle of acquaintance lately. Some of the people I know are God-fearing Christians who have raised their children in the church, some of them I have grown up with and know as "good" people, and some are lost in some sort of addiction or lifestyle that keeps them blinded to genuine love.
I only say this to point out that the "me-first" mentality of many young people crosses all lines of social status, wealth, race and religion. I'm not making a judgement against any individual, group or even parenting style. Many youth in general are lacking just plain-old common sense knowledge. There seems to be less focus on life skills in our technological society. My nephew can program a computer but not run a dishwasher, for example!
Whether you know someone who is 16 yrs old and in school, or 26 and back home with parents, the thinking seems to be the same: "What? I gotta pay for that?! But I thought it was just my right to have nice things, to drive a good car, to go where I want and do what I please. As long as I don't murder someone or something like that, good things should just fall into my lap, right?"
We, as parents, helped foster this attitude by always wanting to give our children "what we never had growing up". But see, one thing we never had is their sense of entitlement! I raised two daughters to adulthood as a single mom. I did the best I could and made sure they knew they were loved, valuable, and had all the niceties I could afford. (Which wasn't that much. But what I couldn't give them financially, I made up for with leniency.) Now I am raising a son just entering his teen years. I think I have learned what not to do and I rely on God alot more these years. Yet, I still hear him say things that make me pause and ask, "where did he get that idea?"
What are we teaching our children about life? About money? About responsibility? Do they know that absolutely EVERYTHING we need to exist on earth costs us something? Work, effort, money? A silly thing that happened this week hit the nail right on the head of this subject: My 4yr old granddaughter spent the week with me and she has a habit of wasting tons of toilet paper and using every tissue in a box to wipe her nose ONCE. (She is only 4 after all!) I finally had to slow her down a little. She says, "But Grandma, you can just go to the store and get more tissue." When I told her I wouldn't have money to do that for a couple more days, she asked, "Even toilet paper cost money? Sheesh, don't people know we need it?" Well, yes Aliyah, even toilet paper does cost money and somebody has to pay for it!
Ok, she is only four years old, but what about the 18 or 25-year-old who has never had to buy their own toilet paper? Or do their own laundry? Or pay for a hair cut or a pair of jeans? What are we teaching our children by giving them every modern convenience and then paying for their leisure on top of it? I've got more to say on this topic tomorrow. Right now I have to go microwave my son some dinner...
Thoughts? Stories? Share them with me!
Scripture reference:
1st Thessalonians 4:11-12
"Make it your ambition to live a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody." (NIV)
I have noticed in my own extended family as well as heard from friends and neighbors, that many young people do not have the work-ethic or values of past generations. Oh, you just noticed that, Deb? Well, I guess I've known it intellectually for awhile, but it seems to be more prevalent in my circle of acquaintance lately. Some of the people I know are God-fearing Christians who have raised their children in the church, some of them I have grown up with and know as "good" people, and some are lost in some sort of addiction or lifestyle that keeps them blinded to genuine love.
I only say this to point out that the "me-first" mentality of many young people crosses all lines of social status, wealth, race and religion. I'm not making a judgement against any individual, group or even parenting style. Many youth in general are lacking just plain-old common sense knowledge. There seems to be less focus on life skills in our technological society. My nephew can program a computer but not run a dishwasher, for example!
Whether you know someone who is 16 yrs old and in school, or 26 and back home with parents, the thinking seems to be the same: "What? I gotta pay for that?! But I thought it was just my right to have nice things, to drive a good car, to go where I want and do what I please. As long as I don't murder someone or something like that, good things should just fall into my lap, right?"
We, as parents, helped foster this attitude by always wanting to give our children "what we never had growing up". But see, one thing we never had is their sense of entitlement! I raised two daughters to adulthood as a single mom. I did the best I could and made sure they knew they were loved, valuable, and had all the niceties I could afford. (Which wasn't that much. But what I couldn't give them financially, I made up for with leniency.) Now I am raising a son just entering his teen years. I think I have learned what not to do and I rely on God alot more these years. Yet, I still hear him say things that make me pause and ask, "where did he get that idea?"
What are we teaching our children about life? About money? About responsibility? Do they know that absolutely EVERYTHING we need to exist on earth costs us something? Work, effort, money? A silly thing that happened this week hit the nail right on the head of this subject: My 4yr old granddaughter spent the week with me and she has a habit of wasting tons of toilet paper and using every tissue in a box to wipe her nose ONCE. (She is only 4 after all!) I finally had to slow her down a little. She says, "But Grandma, you can just go to the store and get more tissue." When I told her I wouldn't have money to do that for a couple more days, she asked, "Even toilet paper cost money? Sheesh, don't people know we need it?" Well, yes Aliyah, even toilet paper does cost money and somebody has to pay for it!
Ok, she is only four years old, but what about the 18 or 25-year-old who has never had to buy their own toilet paper? Or do their own laundry? Or pay for a hair cut or a pair of jeans? What are we teaching our children by giving them every modern convenience and then paying for their leisure on top of it? I've got more to say on this topic tomorrow. Right now I have to go microwave my son some dinner...
Thoughts? Stories? Share them with me!
Scripture reference:
1st Thessalonians 4:11-12
"Make it your ambition to live a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody." (NIV)
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Open My Eyes
Good morning friends! A young woman of God exhorted the congregation in my church Sunday. There is always good wisdom in the Word of God, and I like to think I am always listening! There are those times though, when the simplest things hit you upside the head and a light goes on! You can hear a scripture a million times and then one day, just "get it". This young lady spoke about hearing from God. About how He is always there whether we "hear" or "feel" him or not. He never changes, we do.
She told us she has learned to listen more closely during life's little "interruptions". I thought of the times in the past year that my life has been interrupted by unexpected occurrences. By things that weren't part of my plan. How I grumbled inwardly about not having time to deal with it "right now". Of course, I got through them, but how much better to have learned from them, or to listen to what God has to say about them?
Whether it is a small thing like a change in schedule or a major life change, such as an unexected pregnancy, we need to remember that God is in them with us. (What if He didn't have time for OUR interruptions?) We have so much going on in our busy lives that we consider every tiny detour an interruption. How dare that neighbor call during our study time? Why does that single mom need a ride to church at the last minute on a day I need to be there early? Did my sister really need a place to stay the same weekend that my mother-in-law was visiting?
Sure, we may deal with these interruptions, we may talk to that neighbor or give someone a ride...good Christians that we are. But do we resent them? Do we get behind in our own little plans and then stress out trying to catch up? I know that sometimes I do. I recently helped out a family member, again. The same one that always seems to need something when I am busiest. I went through the motions of meeting their needs, but I was not happy about it. Because of my inner resentment, I almost missed the little moments: a child's grateful hug, slowing down long enough to see a butterfly in winter, really hearing the words to a song I thought I had known for a long time. Finding out that hot dogs do taste good in scrambled eggs(A child's idea) because I forgot to take the sausage out of the freezer.
Yes, God is there even when we aren't listening. He's in the small stuff and even in the interruptions. I am learning to acknowledge Him in all of those, how about you?
Scripture reference:
1st Kings 19:11-12
Then He said, "Go out and stand on the mountain before the Lord", and behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind, an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
She told us she has learned to listen more closely during life's little "interruptions". I thought of the times in the past year that my life has been interrupted by unexpected occurrences. By things that weren't part of my plan. How I grumbled inwardly about not having time to deal with it "right now". Of course, I got through them, but how much better to have learned from them, or to listen to what God has to say about them?
Whether it is a small thing like a change in schedule or a major life change, such as an unexected pregnancy, we need to remember that God is in them with us. (What if He didn't have time for OUR interruptions?) We have so much going on in our busy lives that we consider every tiny detour an interruption. How dare that neighbor call during our study time? Why does that single mom need a ride to church at the last minute on a day I need to be there early? Did my sister really need a place to stay the same weekend that my mother-in-law was visiting?
Sure, we may deal with these interruptions, we may talk to that neighbor or give someone a ride...good Christians that we are. But do we resent them? Do we get behind in our own little plans and then stress out trying to catch up? I know that sometimes I do. I recently helped out a family member, again. The same one that always seems to need something when I am busiest. I went through the motions of meeting their needs, but I was not happy about it. Because of my inner resentment, I almost missed the little moments: a child's grateful hug, slowing down long enough to see a butterfly in winter, really hearing the words to a song I thought I had known for a long time. Finding out that hot dogs do taste good in scrambled eggs(A child's idea) because I forgot to take the sausage out of the freezer.
Yes, God is there even when we aren't listening. He's in the small stuff and even in the interruptions. I am learning to acknowledge Him in all of those, how about you?
Scripture reference:
1st Kings 19:11-12
Then He said, "Go out and stand on the mountain before the Lord", and behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind, an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
Quote of the Day
People exclaim "that's impossible" (until it isn't). People whine "that'll never happen" (until it does). People sneer "You're wasting your time" (until it it pays off). History books are filled with people who were called Crazy by those who were Lazy. - Don Snyder
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Quote of the Day
It is not doing the things we like to do but liking the things we have to do that makes life blessed.
—Frances L. Willis, Guideposts reader,
Texas City, Texas
—Frances L. Willis, Guideposts reader,
Texas City, Texas
Friday, April 1, 2011
How do You celebrate?
So, it's that time of year again. Baskets and bunnies line the shelves of every store, kids have time off from school, and pastel clothing is all the rage. It's spring. It's the Easter season. It's fun, right? But what does any of this have to do with Jesus?
Most of you reading my blog are already Christians, that's why you're reading it, right? But how do YOU celebrate this "season"? What does it mean to you? What do you teach your children about Easter? What traditions do you observe? Do you know where they came from and what is behind them? As Christians, sure we KNOW we are supposed to be honoring Jesus' death and resurrection. But do we take the time to remember or learn what that really means to us? Or do we make a big dinner and hide baskets of candy?
I have a story of when Easter changed for me. But I really want to hear YOUR stories. I do this so that Christians and parents have a place to connect. Not just to read what I say, but to share ideas, thoughts and encouragement with one another! Leave me a comment about your celebrations and then I will tell you about mine.
Scripture Reference
1st Corinthians 11:26
"For as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord's death till He comes."
Most of you reading my blog are already Christians, that's why you're reading it, right? But how do YOU celebrate this "season"? What does it mean to you? What do you teach your children about Easter? What traditions do you observe? Do you know where they came from and what is behind them? As Christians, sure we KNOW we are supposed to be honoring Jesus' death and resurrection. But do we take the time to remember or learn what that really means to us? Or do we make a big dinner and hide baskets of candy?
I have a story of when Easter changed for me. But I really want to hear YOUR stories. I do this so that Christians and parents have a place to connect. Not just to read what I say, but to share ideas, thoughts and encouragement with one another! Leave me a comment about your celebrations and then I will tell you about mine.
Scripture Reference
1st Corinthians 11:26
"For as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord's death till He comes."
Thursday, March 31, 2011
New Quote. There are so many good ones!
The excitement of learning separates youth from old age. As long as you're learning, you're not old.
—Rosalyn S. Yalow, Nobel Prize winner
—Rosalyn S. Yalow, Nobel Prize winner
Wednesday, March 30, 2011
Quote of the Day
My kids have given me a glimpse of how God must feel. God looks at us, like, ‘Oh, good grief…you’re driving me crazy, but I still love you.'
- Jeff Foxworthy, Actor and TV host
- Jeff Foxworthy, Actor and TV host
Monday, March 28, 2011
Protection 2
The story my granddaughter told me was a great example of God's protection and having the faith of a child.
One day, my daughter was walking in the down-town area of our small city. She had two children with her and they were enjoying the sunshine and window shopping. There was a pawn/thrift store nearby the strip of higher-end stores. We all know that kids ask for things in any store, so wanting to keep the splurge within her budget, my daughter headed toward the thrift store. Her daughter, Alexis was 4 or 5 at the time and typically well-behaved. Suddenly, Alexis stopped in her tracks and refused to budge. "I don't wanna go in THAT store," she said. My daughter pulled her toward the store and Alexis threw herself on the ground in a tantrum. This was unusual for her at that age. Moms everywhere can almost hear the interaction that followed; mom cajoling, even bribing the child to follow her and to calm down. Alexis was hysterical and my daughter agreed to go in another store first, striking a deal that she was not buying Alexis anything in the first store. Alexis calmed down and they entered the first shop. 20 minutes later, when they exited the store, there were police cars surrounding the thrift store. Alexis said the "shiny man" was gone. She said the shiny man had blocked the door of the thrift store earlier and told her she couldn't come in.
My daughter learned that two men had come to rob the store and had shot an employee and was holding a customer hostage. When 8-yr-old Alexis told me this story, she very non-chalantly said, "So I always know God is protecting us."
Is your faith that simple these days? It should be.
One day, my daughter was walking in the down-town area of our small city. She had two children with her and they were enjoying the sunshine and window shopping. There was a pawn/thrift store nearby the strip of higher-end stores. We all know that kids ask for things in any store, so wanting to keep the splurge within her budget, my daughter headed toward the thrift store. Her daughter, Alexis was 4 or 5 at the time and typically well-behaved. Suddenly, Alexis stopped in her tracks and refused to budge. "I don't wanna go in THAT store," she said. My daughter pulled her toward the store and Alexis threw herself on the ground in a tantrum. This was unusual for her at that age. Moms everywhere can almost hear the interaction that followed; mom cajoling, even bribing the child to follow her and to calm down. Alexis was hysterical and my daughter agreed to go in another store first, striking a deal that she was not buying Alexis anything in the first store. Alexis calmed down and they entered the first shop. 20 minutes later, when they exited the store, there were police cars surrounding the thrift store. Alexis said the "shiny man" was gone. She said the shiny man had blocked the door of the thrift store earlier and told her she couldn't come in.
My daughter learned that two men had come to rob the store and had shot an employee and was holding a customer hostage. When 8-yr-old Alexis told me this story, she very non-chalantly said, "So I always know God is protecting us."
Is your faith that simple these days? It should be.
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Quote of the Week
"I can forgive but I cannot forget, is only another way of saying, I will not forgive. Forgiveness ought to be like a cancelled note - torn in two, and burned up, so that it never can be shown against one." - Henry Ward Beecher
Saturday, March 26, 2011
Protection and Provision
Scripture Reference
Psalm 46:1-2
"God is our refuge and strength. A very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, Even though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea."
My 8 year-old granddaughter just told me a story of a time she felt the Lord's protection. She also had questions about the earthquakes and Tsunami's lately. Can any of you comment and help me out with this question:
"Didn't those people pray and ask for God's protection?" Does the scripture mean we will not be afraid in the midst of tragedy? Or that believers are protected from tragedy? (We all know instances where great people of God have suffered tragedies) How do we explain to an 8-yr-old not to be afraid in the very real and present dangers today?
Psalm 46:1-2
"God is our refuge and strength. A very present help in trouble. Therefore we will not fear, Even though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea."
My 8 year-old granddaughter just told me a story of a time she felt the Lord's protection. She also had questions about the earthquakes and Tsunami's lately. Can any of you comment and help me out with this question:
"Didn't those people pray and ask for God's protection?" Does the scripture mean we will not be afraid in the midst of tragedy? Or that believers are protected from tragedy? (We all know instances where great people of God have suffered tragedies) How do we explain to an 8-yr-old not to be afraid in the very real and present dangers today?
Friday, March 25, 2011
Quote of the Week 2
"Free yourself from comparison. Just because someone has fancy sneakers doesn’t mean they can run faster."
—Jon Bon Jovi, singer and musician
—Jon Bon Jovi, singer and musician
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Thanks For Your Support!
Thank you to all of my terrific friends who have come to my blog to help me out. I am learning this process myself and just realized something. If you clicked "follow by email" on my blog, you will get email in your inbox every time I write something on here. If you do not want to keep getting those, you can come back to Godfrogdaily.blogspot.com and just click "follow" in the upper left hand corner of the page. This will count you as a follower but will not slam your email box.
Either way, thanks so much for your love and support! You can "unsubscribe" by email at any time. Let me know if you have questions and you may leave comments or tell me what God has done for you as well!
James 1:2-4
"My Brethern, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing."
Either way, thanks so much for your love and support! You can "unsubscribe" by email at any time. Let me know if you have questions and you may leave comments or tell me what God has done for you as well!
James 1:2-4
"My Brethern, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing."
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
You Gotta Act Like It!
They do say, "Out of the mouths of babes".
As a grandmother, I have heard many cute, and not so cute, things come out of a child's mouth. One day, my four-year-old granddaughter, Aliyah was visiting my home and we were making birthday cards for her little brother. The phone rang and I answered it, leaving Aliyah at the table with crayons and markers. I could still see her and she could hear my conversation as well. I was talking to a friend I had met in church.
I had just purchased a new dining room set and the chairs were covered in a light tan fabric. When I got off the phone and sat back down with Aliyah, she said, "Grandma, I heard you talking about church. Do they sing and shout amen at your church?" I told her yes, sometimes. She asked if they talked about God and Jesus at my church and again, I said yes. "Do they tell you to act like Jesus?" she asked. "They tell me to try," I answered. "Oh good," she sighed, "Then you have to forgive me for this." She moved her little bottom and there were marker drawings on my new chair. My face must have shown my frustration as she said, "Ah, ah, ah Grandma, you can't yell at me, cause Im gonna tell you I am sorry. And then you have to forgive me. 'Cause I love you."
Wow.
Now it could have been very clever manipulation. She is adorable and she knows it. But darn it, she was also right. It made me think of all of the people who are listening to me. To you. To people who say they are Christians. Not only was this little girl listening to my "talk" but she was holding me accountable for my "walk". Others are watching us, too. Do we tell our neighbors we are Christians and then go around grumbling, complaining or acting like everyone else?
We should be Christians not "in word only, but also in deed". Thanks for reminding me of that, Aliyah! But she still had to help me scrub the chair!
As a grandmother, I have heard many cute, and not so cute, things come out of a child's mouth. One day, my four-year-old granddaughter, Aliyah was visiting my home and we were making birthday cards for her little brother. The phone rang and I answered it, leaving Aliyah at the table with crayons and markers. I could still see her and she could hear my conversation as well. I was talking to a friend I had met in church.
I had just purchased a new dining room set and the chairs were covered in a light tan fabric. When I got off the phone and sat back down with Aliyah, she said, "Grandma, I heard you talking about church. Do they sing and shout amen at your church?" I told her yes, sometimes. She asked if they talked about God and Jesus at my church and again, I said yes. "Do they tell you to act like Jesus?" she asked. "They tell me to try," I answered. "Oh good," she sighed, "Then you have to forgive me for this." She moved her little bottom and there were marker drawings on my new chair. My face must have shown my frustration as she said, "Ah, ah, ah Grandma, you can't yell at me, cause Im gonna tell you I am sorry. And then you have to forgive me. 'Cause I love you."
Wow.
Now it could have been very clever manipulation. She is adorable and she knows it. But darn it, she was also right. It made me think of all of the people who are listening to me. To you. To people who say they are Christians. Not only was this little girl listening to my "talk" but she was holding me accountable for my "walk". Others are watching us, too. Do we tell our neighbors we are Christians and then go around grumbling, complaining or acting like everyone else?
We should be Christians not "in word only, but also in deed". Thanks for reminding me of that, Aliyah! But she still had to help me scrub the chair!
Scripture Reference
1st John 3:18-20
My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth. And by this we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before Him. For if our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and knows all things.
My little children, let us not love in word or in tongue, but in deed and in truth. And by this we know that we are of the truth, and shall assure our hearts before Him. For if our heart condemns us, God is greater than our heart, and knows all things.
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Quote of the Week
"Whether it was making my bed or making a movie, my mother and father never hesitated to say how proud they were of me, and that means so very much to a child."
- Reese Witherspoon, Actress
- Reese Witherspoon, Actress
Moving On
Scripture Reference
Jeremiah 1:6-8 (NKJV) Then said I, "Ah Lord God! Behold, I cannot speak, for I am a youth." But the Lord said to me:"Do not say, 'I am a youth', For you shall go to all to whom I send you, And whatever I command you, you shall speak. Do not be afraid of their faces, For I am with you to deliver you," says the Lord.
So, a little background information would be helpful for you to understand or relate to our story.
I am the single mom of a 13 year old son and I also have two grown daughters with children of their own. When my son was 3 years old, I opened my own childcare business to allow me to support him and still be the one to raise him. It did very well until 2009 when the economy in Michigan was hit hard, along with the rest of the country. Clients were losing their jobs, parents were working opposite shifts to save money, and I had a rough time drumming up new business. This same summer, the father of my two oldest children passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. He was 43 years old. He had no life insurance or savings. Our children were devastated and we felt obligated financially as well.
During this same rough year, a good friend of mine from church passed away, we lost the land contract on our house, and my son was struggling badly in school. Up to this point, we were not rich but had what we needed and I was able to provide the "extras" all young boys ask for: video games, legos, sports participation, themed birthday parties. My son Zach, was very social and involved in activities at church and school. He had friends over several times per week to play with his newest gadget. It seemed to me like I was always spouting off a moral lesson or relating a scripture as Zach went through the normal, daily life of a boy. He would grunt, "Uh, huh" or "Yes, I know, Mom" and go about his business.
We went through another year and a half of difficult seasons. We lost pretty much every material thing we had and even sold our car. Part of this time, we stayed with family members. I am so grateful for them allowing us into their home, but no one in my family is a Christian, except me and my children. There were moral differences of opinion and some daily struggles. Some of my family is very well-off financially and own the latest gadgets, nice cars, etc. Part of me was happy that my son wasn't "suffering" in that regard. Inevitably, we had a disagreement among family members that we just could not work past and we were asked to leave.
My son and I were homeless for five months. With help from church members and community resources, we did finally move into a housing project that is based on income. Once we were physically moved in, I fell apart. We had no furniture, no car, no income. My son was moved to sell his belongings to help with costs. I felt terrible for him. (I did end up going back to school and getting a part-time job, but the first two months were really rough!) I heard murmurings among my family members about where I was living; a "rough" neighborhood. They made sarcastic comments about how I was such a "Christian" but had to live like this.
We have been in our new "digs" for several months now and I am amazed at the way things have come together. We have nicer furniture now than we did before we lost our house! God has moved in awesome ways to help us get on our feet. Most of all, the rough times has made me see the true character that has been created in my son. He is unselfish with his things and with his time. He encourages me when I need it and asks for help when he needs it. He is getting the best grades in school that he ever has. He has made one or two new friends, but is kind to all of the neighbors. I have had women come up to me and compliment me on my son's manners. He holds doors for them and carries their groceries. He smiles and says hello when he passes anyone in the hall or outside. He has been offerred to smoke a cigarette or to participate in little things he shouldn't. He always tells me and he simply says, "No, thank you." He has prayed for his fellow students on the school bus and invited them to church. When I start to feel bad about Zach not having the latest "stuff", he tells me he is really okay. He says things like, "Mom, I am so much richer than you think. I have you and God. I have a great church and new friends. I feel really good about being here."
My family was concerned about the influence of our new neighborhood, but I am here to tell you that my son has been the influence on many of them. There are groups of kids or teenagers outside that like to act tough. They refuse to move out of the way for adults or cars passing by. They move for my son. He just says, "Excuse me." One time, Zach and I were walking to the rental office across a parking lot when a group of five teens were gathered, smoking and swearing. One of the teens I didn't recognize started blocking our path and grumbling "What the f*** are you looking at?" Another one, a resident, touched his arm and said, "Hey man, don't talk like that around them. That ain't cool. That's Little Preacher Man and his mama." Hmmm, I like the sound of that.
Jeremiah 1:6-8 (NKJV) Then said I, "Ah Lord God! Behold, I cannot speak, for I am a youth." But the Lord said to me:"Do not say, 'I am a youth', For you shall go to all to whom I send you, And whatever I command you, you shall speak. Do not be afraid of their faces, For I am with you to deliver you," says the Lord.
So, a little background information would be helpful for you to understand or relate to our story.
I am the single mom of a 13 year old son and I also have two grown daughters with children of their own. When my son was 3 years old, I opened my own childcare business to allow me to support him and still be the one to raise him. It did very well until 2009 when the economy in Michigan was hit hard, along with the rest of the country. Clients were losing their jobs, parents were working opposite shifts to save money, and I had a rough time drumming up new business. This same summer, the father of my two oldest children passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. He was 43 years old. He had no life insurance or savings. Our children were devastated and we felt obligated financially as well.
During this same rough year, a good friend of mine from church passed away, we lost the land contract on our house, and my son was struggling badly in school. Up to this point, we were not rich but had what we needed and I was able to provide the "extras" all young boys ask for: video games, legos, sports participation, themed birthday parties. My son Zach, was very social and involved in activities at church and school. He had friends over several times per week to play with his newest gadget. It seemed to me like I was always spouting off a moral lesson or relating a scripture as Zach went through the normal, daily life of a boy. He would grunt, "Uh, huh" or "Yes, I know, Mom" and go about his business.
We went through another year and a half of difficult seasons. We lost pretty much every material thing we had and even sold our car. Part of this time, we stayed with family members. I am so grateful for them allowing us into their home, but no one in my family is a Christian, except me and my children. There were moral differences of opinion and some daily struggles. Some of my family is very well-off financially and own the latest gadgets, nice cars, etc. Part of me was happy that my son wasn't "suffering" in that regard. Inevitably, we had a disagreement among family members that we just could not work past and we were asked to leave.
My son and I were homeless for five months. With help from church members and community resources, we did finally move into a housing project that is based on income. Once we were physically moved in, I fell apart. We had no furniture, no car, no income. My son was moved to sell his belongings to help with costs. I felt terrible for him. (I did end up going back to school and getting a part-time job, but the first two months were really rough!) I heard murmurings among my family members about where I was living; a "rough" neighborhood. They made sarcastic comments about how I was such a "Christian" but had to live like this.
We have been in our new "digs" for several months now and I am amazed at the way things have come together. We have nicer furniture now than we did before we lost our house! God has moved in awesome ways to help us get on our feet. Most of all, the rough times has made me see the true character that has been created in my son. He is unselfish with his things and with his time. He encourages me when I need it and asks for help when he needs it. He is getting the best grades in school that he ever has. He has made one or two new friends, but is kind to all of the neighbors. I have had women come up to me and compliment me on my son's manners. He holds doors for them and carries their groceries. He smiles and says hello when he passes anyone in the hall or outside. He has been offerred to smoke a cigarette or to participate in little things he shouldn't. He always tells me and he simply says, "No, thank you." He has prayed for his fellow students on the school bus and invited them to church. When I start to feel bad about Zach not having the latest "stuff", he tells me he is really okay. He says things like, "Mom, I am so much richer than you think. I have you and God. I have a great church and new friends. I feel really good about being here."
My family was concerned about the influence of our new neighborhood, but I am here to tell you that my son has been the influence on many of them. There are groups of kids or teenagers outside that like to act tough. They refuse to move out of the way for adults or cars passing by. They move for my son. He just says, "Excuse me." One time, Zach and I were walking to the rental office across a parking lot when a group of five teens were gathered, smoking and swearing. One of the teens I didn't recognize started blocking our path and grumbling "What the f*** are you looking at?" Another one, a resident, touched his arm and said, "Hey man, don't talk like that around them. That ain't cool. That's Little Preacher Man and his mama." Hmmm, I like the sound of that.
Monday, March 21, 2011
Welcome
Hello! I am very excited about starting this blog. I can't wait to have conversations about how God is working in our lives and those little things we deal with as parents and Christians. I have some experience as a writer, but this is mostly about sharing faith and family. To start off with, I have a little story about my 13-yr-old son and when I knew for sure that he had been listening to the lessons from home and church:
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