Monday, April 11, 2011
Quote of the Day
When asked if she would want to go back to how life was before losing an arm in a shark attack, Bethany Hamilton said, "I would not change what happened to me because I have been able to make a bigger impact on more people, than I ever would have with two arms."
Good for the Soul?
Hi! Hope everyone had a great weekend! In our area, it was just Spring Break for the school children. I used to homeschool my son, but he is in a public middle school now. I did not realize how much I had grown used to my "kid-free" time until this past week! Of course, whenever there is some sort of school break, all of my past childcare clients and most parents of Zach's current friends, start reserving time at our house. So, to be fair, my chaotic week was not entirely due to my own child! So, after spending the week coordinating things for kids to do on rainy days (yes, it rained all spring break!) and preparing endless meals and snacks, I decided my son and I needed some quiet time together. Alone. Away from the doorbell and phone.
What better place to hide away than a dark movie theater? Ok, so there were several new movies out this past weekend, but really only two choices
for a Christian mom and pre-teen boy. "Hop" is an animated tale (and tail?) about a young man and a rabbit who wants to be the Easter bunny. "Soul Surfer" is a tear-jerker based on the real-life story of Bethany Hamilton, the young surfer who lost one of her arms in a shark attack. Although I shouldn't have been, I was surprised my son chose the surfer movie.
Well, let me say that it was a very good movie! Zach said it was the best movie he had seen in a long time. Quite an honor from a boy into the action-packed super hero movies of the past few years! Bethany's story has been public for awhile, but we hadn't really read or watched much about it. After seeing the movie, I have researched more about her story and her life. I am quite impressed with this young lady! Her physical courage is great, but nothing compares to her spiritual convictions, faith, and humble spirit. These things are more obvious in her real life than in the movie, but the actors did an amazing job walking a difficult line in the film.
I read alot of negative feedback from critics and bloggers. Words like "cheesy" and "fluff" came up many times. Did they watch the same movie I did? I saw incredible strength, endurance and loving commitment. Not just in Bethany but also the other characters in her life. I was deeply moved by this movie and by Bethany herself. My son says this movie completely changed how he looks at life. He is 13 years old and wants to give away his allowance to children suffering from the recent earthquakes and tsunamis. It's only been a couple of days, but he SAYS this story inspired him to stop complaining about what he can't do and to do his chores less grudgingly. We will see.
For devout Christians, this movie may not have gone far enough in depicting the family's faith. For non-believers, it may have been too "preachy", I guess. For me, it was a good balance. Sure, it could have had even more scenes of prayer or family devotion time, for example. But then, how many "main-stream" kids or "secular" parents would have sat through it? They got the story and the message out to a bigger audience while still giving God, and Bethany's faith in Him, the credit for her amazing "comeback. That's a huge step in the right direction.
Did anybody see this movie? What do you think?
Scripture Reference:
Psalm 34:4
"I sought the Lord, and He heard me, And delivered me from all my fears."
What better place to hide away than a dark movie theater? Ok, so there were several new movies out this past weekend, but really only two choices
for a Christian mom and pre-teen boy. "Hop" is an animated tale (and tail?) about a young man and a rabbit who wants to be the Easter bunny. "Soul Surfer" is a tear-jerker based on the real-life story of Bethany Hamilton, the young surfer who lost one of her arms in a shark attack. Although I shouldn't have been, I was surprised my son chose the surfer movie.
Well, let me say that it was a very good movie! Zach said it was the best movie he had seen in a long time. Quite an honor from a boy into the action-packed super hero movies of the past few years! Bethany's story has been public for awhile, but we hadn't really read or watched much about it. After seeing the movie, I have researched more about her story and her life. I am quite impressed with this young lady! Her physical courage is great, but nothing compares to her spiritual convictions, faith, and humble spirit. These things are more obvious in her real life than in the movie, but the actors did an amazing job walking a difficult line in the film.
I read alot of negative feedback from critics and bloggers. Words like "cheesy" and "fluff" came up many times. Did they watch the same movie I did? I saw incredible strength, endurance and loving commitment. Not just in Bethany but also the other characters in her life. I was deeply moved by this movie and by Bethany herself. My son says this movie completely changed how he looks at life. He is 13 years old and wants to give away his allowance to children suffering from the recent earthquakes and tsunamis. It's only been a couple of days, but he SAYS this story inspired him to stop complaining about what he can't do and to do his chores less grudgingly. We will see.
For devout Christians, this movie may not have gone far enough in depicting the family's faith. For non-believers, it may have been too "preachy", I guess. For me, it was a good balance. Sure, it could have had even more scenes of prayer or family devotion time, for example. But then, how many "main-stream" kids or "secular" parents would have sat through it? They got the story and the message out to a bigger audience while still giving God, and Bethany's faith in Him, the credit for her amazing "comeback. That's a huge step in the right direction.
Did anybody see this movie? What do you think?
Scripture Reference:
Psalm 34:4
"I sought the Lord, and He heard me, And delivered me from all my fears."
Friday, April 8, 2011
Really?
There are a couple of things going off in my spirit today. I am going to pray about both of them and ask your opinion on one at a time, if that's ok?
I have noticed in my own extended family as well as heard from friends and neighbors, that many young people do not have the work-ethic or values of past generations. Oh, you just noticed that, Deb? Well, I guess I've known it intellectually for awhile, but it seems to be more prevalent in my circle of acquaintance lately. Some of the people I know are God-fearing Christians who have raised their children in the church, some of them I have grown up with and know as "good" people, and some are lost in some sort of addiction or lifestyle that keeps them blinded to genuine love.
I only say this to point out that the "me-first" mentality of many young people crosses all lines of social status, wealth, race and religion. I'm not making a judgement against any individual, group or even parenting style. Many youth in general are lacking just plain-old common sense knowledge. There seems to be less focus on life skills in our technological society. My nephew can program a computer but not run a dishwasher, for example!
Whether you know someone who is 16 yrs old and in school, or 26 and back home with parents, the thinking seems to be the same: "What? I gotta pay for that?! But I thought it was just my right to have nice things, to drive a good car, to go where I want and do what I please. As long as I don't murder someone or something like that, good things should just fall into my lap, right?"
We, as parents, helped foster this attitude by always wanting to give our children "what we never had growing up". But see, one thing we never had is their sense of entitlement! I raised two daughters to adulthood as a single mom. I did the best I could and made sure they knew they were loved, valuable, and had all the niceties I could afford. (Which wasn't that much. But what I couldn't give them financially, I made up for with leniency.) Now I am raising a son just entering his teen years. I think I have learned what not to do and I rely on God alot more these years. Yet, I still hear him say things that make me pause and ask, "where did he get that idea?"
What are we teaching our children about life? About money? About responsibility? Do they know that absolutely EVERYTHING we need to exist on earth costs us something? Work, effort, money? A silly thing that happened this week hit the nail right on the head of this subject: My 4yr old granddaughter spent the week with me and she has a habit of wasting tons of toilet paper and using every tissue in a box to wipe her nose ONCE. (She is only 4 after all!) I finally had to slow her down a little. She says, "But Grandma, you can just go to the store and get more tissue." When I told her I wouldn't have money to do that for a couple more days, she asked, "Even toilet paper cost money? Sheesh, don't people know we need it?" Well, yes Aliyah, even toilet paper does cost money and somebody has to pay for it!
Ok, she is only four years old, but what about the 18 or 25-year-old who has never had to buy their own toilet paper? Or do their own laundry? Or pay for a hair cut or a pair of jeans? What are we teaching our children by giving them every modern convenience and then paying for their leisure on top of it? I've got more to say on this topic tomorrow. Right now I have to go microwave my son some dinner...
Thoughts? Stories? Share them with me!
Scripture reference:
1st Thessalonians 4:11-12
"Make it your ambition to live a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody." (NIV)
I have noticed in my own extended family as well as heard from friends and neighbors, that many young people do not have the work-ethic or values of past generations. Oh, you just noticed that, Deb? Well, I guess I've known it intellectually for awhile, but it seems to be more prevalent in my circle of acquaintance lately. Some of the people I know are God-fearing Christians who have raised their children in the church, some of them I have grown up with and know as "good" people, and some are lost in some sort of addiction or lifestyle that keeps them blinded to genuine love.
I only say this to point out that the "me-first" mentality of many young people crosses all lines of social status, wealth, race and religion. I'm not making a judgement against any individual, group or even parenting style. Many youth in general are lacking just plain-old common sense knowledge. There seems to be less focus on life skills in our technological society. My nephew can program a computer but not run a dishwasher, for example!
Whether you know someone who is 16 yrs old and in school, or 26 and back home with parents, the thinking seems to be the same: "What? I gotta pay for that?! But I thought it was just my right to have nice things, to drive a good car, to go where I want and do what I please. As long as I don't murder someone or something like that, good things should just fall into my lap, right?"
We, as parents, helped foster this attitude by always wanting to give our children "what we never had growing up". But see, one thing we never had is their sense of entitlement! I raised two daughters to adulthood as a single mom. I did the best I could and made sure they knew they were loved, valuable, and had all the niceties I could afford. (Which wasn't that much. But what I couldn't give them financially, I made up for with leniency.) Now I am raising a son just entering his teen years. I think I have learned what not to do and I rely on God alot more these years. Yet, I still hear him say things that make me pause and ask, "where did he get that idea?"
What are we teaching our children about life? About money? About responsibility? Do they know that absolutely EVERYTHING we need to exist on earth costs us something? Work, effort, money? A silly thing that happened this week hit the nail right on the head of this subject: My 4yr old granddaughter spent the week with me and she has a habit of wasting tons of toilet paper and using every tissue in a box to wipe her nose ONCE. (She is only 4 after all!) I finally had to slow her down a little. She says, "But Grandma, you can just go to the store and get more tissue." When I told her I wouldn't have money to do that for a couple more days, she asked, "Even toilet paper cost money? Sheesh, don't people know we need it?" Well, yes Aliyah, even toilet paper does cost money and somebody has to pay for it!
Ok, she is only four years old, but what about the 18 or 25-year-old who has never had to buy their own toilet paper? Or do their own laundry? Or pay for a hair cut or a pair of jeans? What are we teaching our children by giving them every modern convenience and then paying for their leisure on top of it? I've got more to say on this topic tomorrow. Right now I have to go microwave my son some dinner...
Thoughts? Stories? Share them with me!
Scripture reference:
1st Thessalonians 4:11-12
"Make it your ambition to live a quiet life, to mind your own business and to work with your hands, just as we told you, so that your daily life may win the respect of outsiders and so that you will not be dependent on anybody." (NIV)
Wednesday, April 6, 2011
Open My Eyes
Good morning friends! A young woman of God exhorted the congregation in my church Sunday. There is always good wisdom in the Word of God, and I like to think I am always listening! There are those times though, when the simplest things hit you upside the head and a light goes on! You can hear a scripture a million times and then one day, just "get it". This young lady spoke about hearing from God. About how He is always there whether we "hear" or "feel" him or not. He never changes, we do.
She told us she has learned to listen more closely during life's little "interruptions". I thought of the times in the past year that my life has been interrupted by unexpected occurrences. By things that weren't part of my plan. How I grumbled inwardly about not having time to deal with it "right now". Of course, I got through them, but how much better to have learned from them, or to listen to what God has to say about them?
Whether it is a small thing like a change in schedule or a major life change, such as an unexected pregnancy, we need to remember that God is in them with us. (What if He didn't have time for OUR interruptions?) We have so much going on in our busy lives that we consider every tiny detour an interruption. How dare that neighbor call during our study time? Why does that single mom need a ride to church at the last minute on a day I need to be there early? Did my sister really need a place to stay the same weekend that my mother-in-law was visiting?
Sure, we may deal with these interruptions, we may talk to that neighbor or give someone a ride...good Christians that we are. But do we resent them? Do we get behind in our own little plans and then stress out trying to catch up? I know that sometimes I do. I recently helped out a family member, again. The same one that always seems to need something when I am busiest. I went through the motions of meeting their needs, but I was not happy about it. Because of my inner resentment, I almost missed the little moments: a child's grateful hug, slowing down long enough to see a butterfly in winter, really hearing the words to a song I thought I had known for a long time. Finding out that hot dogs do taste good in scrambled eggs(A child's idea) because I forgot to take the sausage out of the freezer.
Yes, God is there even when we aren't listening. He's in the small stuff and even in the interruptions. I am learning to acknowledge Him in all of those, how about you?
Scripture reference:
1st Kings 19:11-12
Then He said, "Go out and stand on the mountain before the Lord", and behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind, an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
She told us she has learned to listen more closely during life's little "interruptions". I thought of the times in the past year that my life has been interrupted by unexpected occurrences. By things that weren't part of my plan. How I grumbled inwardly about not having time to deal with it "right now". Of course, I got through them, but how much better to have learned from them, or to listen to what God has to say about them?
Whether it is a small thing like a change in schedule or a major life change, such as an unexected pregnancy, we need to remember that God is in them with us. (What if He didn't have time for OUR interruptions?) We have so much going on in our busy lives that we consider every tiny detour an interruption. How dare that neighbor call during our study time? Why does that single mom need a ride to church at the last minute on a day I need to be there early? Did my sister really need a place to stay the same weekend that my mother-in-law was visiting?
Sure, we may deal with these interruptions, we may talk to that neighbor or give someone a ride...good Christians that we are. But do we resent them? Do we get behind in our own little plans and then stress out trying to catch up? I know that sometimes I do. I recently helped out a family member, again. The same one that always seems to need something when I am busiest. I went through the motions of meeting their needs, but I was not happy about it. Because of my inner resentment, I almost missed the little moments: a child's grateful hug, slowing down long enough to see a butterfly in winter, really hearing the words to a song I thought I had known for a long time. Finding out that hot dogs do taste good in scrambled eggs(A child's idea) because I forgot to take the sausage out of the freezer.
Yes, God is there even when we aren't listening. He's in the small stuff and even in the interruptions. I am learning to acknowledge Him in all of those, how about you?
Scripture reference:
1st Kings 19:11-12
Then He said, "Go out and stand on the mountain before the Lord", and behold, the Lord passed by, and a great and strong wind tore into the mountains and broke the rocks in pieces before the Lord, but the Lord was not in the wind; and after the wind, an earthquake, but the Lord was not in the earthquake; and after the earthquake a fire, but the Lord was not in the fire; and after the fire a still small voice.
Quote of the Day
People exclaim "that's impossible" (until it isn't). People whine "that'll never happen" (until it does). People sneer "You're wasting your time" (until it it pays off). History books are filled with people who were called Crazy by those who were Lazy. - Don Snyder
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
Quote of the Day
It is not doing the things we like to do but liking the things we have to do that makes life blessed.
—Frances L. Willis, Guideposts reader,
Texas City, Texas
—Frances L. Willis, Guideposts reader,
Texas City, Texas
Friday, April 1, 2011
How do You celebrate?
So, it's that time of year again. Baskets and bunnies line the shelves of every store, kids have time off from school, and pastel clothing is all the rage. It's spring. It's the Easter season. It's fun, right? But what does any of this have to do with Jesus?
Most of you reading my blog are already Christians, that's why you're reading it, right? But how do YOU celebrate this "season"? What does it mean to you? What do you teach your children about Easter? What traditions do you observe? Do you know where they came from and what is behind them? As Christians, sure we KNOW we are supposed to be honoring Jesus' death and resurrection. But do we take the time to remember or learn what that really means to us? Or do we make a big dinner and hide baskets of candy?
I have a story of when Easter changed for me. But I really want to hear YOUR stories. I do this so that Christians and parents have a place to connect. Not just to read what I say, but to share ideas, thoughts and encouragement with one another! Leave me a comment about your celebrations and then I will tell you about mine.
Scripture Reference
1st Corinthians 11:26
"For as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord's death till He comes."
Most of you reading my blog are already Christians, that's why you're reading it, right? But how do YOU celebrate this "season"? What does it mean to you? What do you teach your children about Easter? What traditions do you observe? Do you know where they came from and what is behind them? As Christians, sure we KNOW we are supposed to be honoring Jesus' death and resurrection. But do we take the time to remember or learn what that really means to us? Or do we make a big dinner and hide baskets of candy?
I have a story of when Easter changed for me. But I really want to hear YOUR stories. I do this so that Christians and parents have a place to connect. Not just to read what I say, but to share ideas, thoughts and encouragement with one another! Leave me a comment about your celebrations and then I will tell you about mine.
Scripture Reference
1st Corinthians 11:26
"For as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the Lord's death till He comes."
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